Sometimes you get to live a dream. One of mine was to dine at the French country home of Sharon Santoni, author of the newly released My French Country Home: Entertaining Through the Seasons. She’s been one of my favorite bloggers for years, and we were thrilled to have her come to Nell Hill’s a few years ago to sign her first book, My Stylish French Girlfriends.
When I told Sharon that Dan and I would be traveling in Normandy in May, she graciously invited us and our friends over to her home for dinner. It was an evening I will never forget. Her home and garden were stunning, and her hospitality, unparalleled.
The evening began with champagne and nibbles in Sharon and Eric’s garden, which was abloom with spring flowers and so deliciously fragrant. We moved in to the dining room for a seasonal meal that started with local asparagus, followed by a roast lamb and risotto. After the cheese course, Sharon served a strawberry tart. We stayed until the wee hours of the morning, savoring every minute.
As we were leaving, Sharon handed me a mysterious package. Inside were linen table napkins monogrammed with an M and C, which Sharon had discovered at a French antique market. It was the perfect gift.
I asked Sharon if she would share with us some of her secrets for entertaining – and living – well. She generously agreed …
Mary Carol: When hosting dinner parties, how can you make entertaining more pleasurable and less stressful?
Sharon Santoni: The important thing is to take pleasure in hosting your guests. The way we entertain changes with age. When my husband and I were young, before we had children, we held some pretty fancy dinner parties and that was fun. Then came the years with four small children running around, and weekend house parties with friends with even more children, and that’s when we moved into a slightly more laid back and sometimes even chaotic period. Today we are empty nesters and we have reinstated the Sunday lunch with friends, and love to host dinners in the garden or around an open fire indoors.
Mary Carol: What are your tips for planning, preparing and hosting events at your home?
Sharon: First of all, enjoy! Your guests and friends are looking forward to coming to your home, and they want to find you relaxed and happy. Stick to recipes that you are comfortable with. Keep it simple and don’t attempt a complicated recipe that you’ve never tried before. It will stress you, and you won’t enjoy the meal as much as you should. Prep your table and flowers during the afternoon, and have plenty of time to prepare the meal and have your kitchen cleared before everyone arrives. And if, by the end of the meal, there are a few plates piled up in the kitchen or not everything is picture perfect, it doesn’t matter: This is real life, not a photo shoot for a magazine.
Mary Carol: How do you make the meal memorable?
Sharon: I love to make our guests welcome with a pretty table and some careful thinking about where we will be sitting before, during and after the meal. In France it is normal to spend some time over a drink before moving to the table. In the summer this is generally outside, and in the winter indoors in front of a flickering fire.
Mary Carol: Do you have any advice for Americans on how to truly enjoy a dinner party with friends, the French way?
Sharon: Take your time! We never rush through a meal here in France. Guests are invited for 8:00 to 8:30, and turn up sometime between 8:30 to 8:45. We enjoy drinks and nibbles for an hour or so, then move to the table. For a dinner with friends, we will generally serve a light first course, a main course, cheese and then dessert. Which means that a dinner rarely finishes before midnight, and may continue much longer, especially if we move back to the living room for coffee in front of the fire.
Mary Carol: Can you please tell us about your new book?
Sharon: I come from a family where it was normal and fun to entertain a lot and so did my husband, who is French. Together we combined our respective upbringings to develop our own style of entertaining, which we aim to be comfortable and relaxed. This book is full of ideas for ways to entertain, which are not always sitting down around a table, but maybe a picnic by the river, or an improvised lunch in the forest. All the ideas are easy to put together, because on my blog and in my life I believe in keeping it real.
When Sharon’s new book arrived at Nell Hill’s a few days ago, all of us couldn’t wait to take home a copy to devour. We have plenty more at Nell Hill’s, so please stop by or call for a copy!
Next week … Come with me to my little lake cottage for a Girls Night Out with neighbors.
Peg Burke saysAugust 14, 2017 at 9:35 am
Dear Mary Carol, As a visitor from PA it was such a delight to finally visit Nell Hill’s with my daughter. The staff and store far exceeded my expectations! The lovely lady who tracked down your last gallon of Hedge Apple paint was a delight. (How I wish I could recall her name.) I can’t wait to go home and light one of your signature candles, paint my powder room the exact color of your showrooms and create vignettes from my wonderful purchases! And thank you for the fabulous feature on Sharon Santoni’s new book! A happy visitor, Peg Burke
franki saysAugust 14, 2017 at 3:56 pm
Certainly food for thought!! Lovely post!! franki
Judith saysAugust 14, 2017 at 10:57 pm
I am so envious! Sharon is one of my favorite bloggers and her photos are such beautiful eye candy! I love the fact that she inspires elegance and yet does indeed “keep it real!” Thank you so much for sharing your visit with us!