My sister, Judy, and I were in our PJ’s, snuggled under Pendleton blankets, savoring steaming cups of coffee. It was a rare moment of post-holidays quiet, and we were thoroughly enjoying doing nothing but catching up on each other’s lives.
She said, “We’re hygge-ing!”
“We’re what?” I asked her.
“Oh my gosh, Mary Carol, this is going to be one of the biggest things in the new year,” she said as she whipped out her laptop and did a quick Google search of one of today’s hottest trend: Hygge.
If you’re like me, and you have never heard of hygge (pronounced “hoo-guh”), here’s a quick fill-in: This Danish word doesn’t have a direct translation into English, but “cozy” seems to come the closest. One of Oxford Dictionary’s finalists for 2016’s word of the year, hygge is how the Danes make their long winters bright and land themselves at the top of the list of the world’s happiest people. Hygge is enjoying moments of comfort and relaxation, contentment and well-being, savoring life’s indulgences, having a heart of gratitude.
Like all big sisters, Judy seems to always know what’s up. She has been teaching me what is “cool” since we were kids. Her internet search that morning showed me how hygge is taking the world by storm. It makes sense to me, because right now, our world is stormy. Each of us needs a soul-filling sanctuary, a time and place to restore and revive. So, when we are filled up, we can get back out there and make a positive difference.
That’s exactly what Judy and I were doing on that lazy winter morning. And, I imagine, you have been doing your share of hygge-ing, too. Hygge may not have an English equivalent, but those of us who love our homes totally get it, don’t we? Many of us have been cultivating this practice in our lives for years as we feather our nests, making our spaces warm and welcoming.
Hygge is expressed differently by each of us. For me, it’s surrounding my dining table with good friends and good food. It’s quiet moments with Dan, curled up in front of the fireplace, reading a good book, Lyric at our feet. It’s relishing all my relationships, from my family to those I meet every day at Nell Hill’s. It’s celebrating the big and the little moments. It’s choosing joy.
In my home, living a hygge life means adding beauty everywhere I can. A delightfully set table, even when it’s just an everyday meal. A luxurious bed covered in pillows and blankets that welcome me as I dive in each night. Sink-into chairs that look out over the lake. Warm lamp light. Walls covered with artwork that makes me smile. Shelves and tables dotted with treasures I’ve collected along my journey.
This year, I wish for you a life of hygge. Of togetherness with those you love. Comfort food. Clothes that make you feel sensational. Experiences that help you grow. A sanctuary of a home that wraps its arms around you. What more could we ask for out of life?
Next Week … Whether it’s a new fixture or lamp shade, updating your lighting will breathe new life into your home.
Nancy Eitel says
January 23, 2017 at 10:11 amLove this…..I was also pleased to see the little red plaid book of poems made the move to your new home. I hope to visit Nell Hills sometime soon.
franki says
January 23, 2017 at 2:54 pmHygge with Woodford…cozy cheers!! fraki
Betty Woods says
January 23, 2017 at 3:08 pmMary Carol, you never fail your followers. Love the Hoogooing (Hygge) way of life!
Joan says
January 23, 2017 at 3:49 pmThis was very special! I took notes to help me remember the term and the definition, but am very familiar with the emotions and feelings involved..
Janet Weber says
January 23, 2017 at 7:07 pmThis was such a lovely blog. I felt the warmth between sisters and their environment. This is one of the most important aspects of our lives. Thank you!
Lisa Fernandez says
January 24, 2017 at 8:36 amYes! Yes I love it. And I think those of us who do it best are from the Nell Hills school of design. All that you have taught and showed in your books and store allow all of us, whether we have large homes or small cottages, you have taught us the art of making even the tiniest of spaces, beautiful. So add a cup of coffee, tea or a glass of wine and a great book, a throw and those we love and it’s Hygge time! xoxo MCG, Love Lisa
Susan Quezada says
January 26, 2017 at 1:46 pmJust wanted to say after reading your blog in my California newspaper, I am very familiar with the term “hygee “.
My daughter-in-law is Scandinavian and taught me that term before I visited her and my son while they lived in Denmark.
Such a “cozy” word!!
Daphne says
January 29, 2017 at 8:54 pmYou’re a delight!
Sharon Smith says
February 7, 2017 at 3:02 pmwonderful feelings go with the word! Where can I find those coral print pillows on the window seat??
Mary Carol Garrity says
February 9, 2017 at 10:49 amSharon, give us a call at Nell Hell’s for the fabric options. 816-746-4320. Thanks!